What if you are not wrong?
For many years, I've made myself wrong for so many things.
What became my way of being was If I didn't make certain choices to make other people happy, then by default I was wrong.
This created so much frustration, anger, guilt and judgment in my own life.
It also created separation from me as I often chose against myself which lead to self-abuse.
WHAT IF YOU ARE NOT WRONG FOR THE CHOICES YOU ARE CHOOSING?
I almost cried when I first asked myself this question.
When I finally realized that, what if I'm not wrong for the choices I make? And what if other people are not wrong for what they are choosing.
FREEDOM!
Choosing this space, you're no longer bound to other people's projections, rejections and expectations.
You get to choose what works for you.
What works for you is not wrong.
What if when you choose what works for you, you are being kind to you and this also contributes to everyone else around you.
You will choose things that will make other people angry.
That is OKAY.
How people react is not your responsibility.
Give people the freedom to choose what they choose even if it is anger towards you.
Be aware!
Choosing this way of living can be uncomfortable.
You will be judged; you will be made wrong. People will think that you are crazy.
Let people think what they would like to think.
The more you allow yourself to be you while receiving judgment - you'll have the freedom to create your life.
That's magic. Creating YOUR life.
How much more joy would you have access to if you were willing to be wrong, willing to be judged, and also willing to ask this question, "What if I am not wrong?"
Grace Covington
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