How much of your life do you live from other people’s obligations?
Everywhere you are creating your life based on the obligations others have of you is everywhere you allow other people to control you.
How much of your life is controlled by other people?
Take a moment to allow this question to uncover how much of your life you may be allowing others to control you.
When it comes to fulfilling other people’s requirements which do you resonate the most with?
A) I am obligated to do this ———- (fill in the blank) so that I’ll be seen as the good person I’d like you to see me as.
B) I’d rather not receive your mean judgements so I will do all the things you ask me even though I don’t want to do them.
C) I’ve often done things out of obligation because I do not want to be judged.
The most free I’ve felt in years is when I let go of ALL obligations anyone had of me and did not fulfill them.
I started to choose what works for me rather than do what was expected of me.
Yes, you will disappoint and ALOT of judgement will be projected towards you when you give yourself the space to choose.
What this has invited is total choice, total trust AND more joy.
It’s allowed me to have allowance for me.
What if the beginning to receiving everything you ask for is receiving you with no judgement?
This has been one of the greatest releases yet that has created more space for me to develop a deep communion with me.
You could be raising an argument- well I’m obligated to pay my bills so I'm not going to pay them because I don't want to.
C’mon now!
If you don't pay your electric bill, your electricity will be shut off.
Use your common sense.
What I'm asking you to look at is everywhere your life is ruled by other people’s obligations.
Do you desire to be free?
Begin to explore this space and be willing to disappoint.
Grace Covington
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